"What is a “Dining-Out?”

Originally, such events date back to the old Viking tradition of celebrating great battles by formal ceremony. This evolved for hundreds of years through the United States and European military services to what is now referred as a “Dining-Out”, versus a “Dining-In” (by which spouses would not be invited).
Naval Officers and their spouses gather for the sole purpose of an evening of fine food, drinking, comradery/ fellowship and the honoring of feats of individuals in a formal setting. There are a variety of instructions and protocol that are to be followed while attending a “Dining-Out”. Firstly, there are two “officers”: The President, who is usually the Commanding or Executive Officer, and the Vice President, referred to as “Mr. Vice”. The President presides over the mess throughout the evening. “Mr. Vice” is traditionally a keen witted person who often stimulates table conversation.


Formal in nature, it is customary for officers to wear their Dinner Dress Blue Jacket. Both service members and guests should wear medals. The guests are also requested to dress in formal wear.
The evening begins with the cocktail hour to socialize, greeting the Senior Officer upon arrival, of course. Following, the cocktail hour, there will be the “Introductions”, followed by the call to dinner, parading of the beef, dinner service, toasts, etc. There are numerous points of protocol that are shared wit the guests before arrival at the “Dining-Out”. Often, “fines” will be levied for misconduct in the “mess” or violation. These fines are at the discretion of the President and are traditionally either in monetary payment or a drink from the grog (often, the grog is very uniquely presented). The evening is full of formalities, with a tremendous amount of fun, humor and increased comradery by the end of the evening.


The J.T. Daugherty Conference Center is the perfect location to hold your next Dining Out. We understand the sequence of events associated with the evening, and have additional information including a sample schedule of events complete with suggested wording for the President and Mr. Vice, as well as a listing of the “violations” to consider in “the mess”. There are numerous features we can provide to enhance the evening, including the proper cistern for the grog, providing the MIA table, head-table in view of Mr. Vice’s table, fully stocked bars and of course a meal truly “fit for consumption”, determined by “Mr. Vice” and prepared by our Executive Chef and his culinary staff.
The J.T. Daugherty Conference Center is committed to working with you in making this event a huge success. Call today for more information and the beginning of a great event!


 

 
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